Envisioning Our Future with Realism, Daring and Hope
Beth
Quire, OP ( North American Representative for the Panel Presentation
by Younger Sisters )
Enter
Religious Life NOW? Aren’t you worried about the future?” NO,
I’m not worried, my God is FAITHFUL!!! In reflecting on the
questions and the theme, the image that came to me was pruning the
rose bushes. This year, I was delayed, it was late February and new
growth had begun to appear. I still knew they needed to be pruned.
Pruning can be painful, cutting back and removing, but we do it so
that new life can come, today this same task is needed for Dominican
Life. I’m going to begin by looking at the Future of Dominican
Apostolic Life in North America, move on to the expectations of young
people, continue with our missioning challenges and close with what I
think Dominican Life will look like in 10 years.
Our
Future through the eyes of realism, daring, and hope is a
sobering picture. We have been institutional for many years; with
the sisters forming the work force. There are now fewer of us. This
fact worries some sisters. How will we keep the institutions going?
How will we encourage more women to enter? How will we care for our
elderly? These are the wrong questions. Instead we need to
ask, “What is the Spirit calling us to TODAY?” The image of
Dominic with the Gospel in one hand and the newspaper in the other
can be our guide. What is our newspaper or web info telling us today?
Before you write me off as naïve, let me explain, “How will we
care for our elders?” is the wrong question because it is the wrong
focus. Of course we will care for our elders, but we will do it
differently.
Our
future calls us to great change. I believe we need a paradigm shift.
Some sisters in North America think that the answer is merging
together. This simply makes us bigger. Merging to create totally new
congregations means that a great deal of time and energy will need to
be spent looking inward. I believe we can collaborate in many areas
without creating whole new congregations. Paradigm shift does not
mean just turning and looking in a different direction, it means
questioning the entire perspective from which we view and the
assumptions that we make. It is being totally open to what the “new”
has to say, open to things never imagined before. As with pruning
when we look at a bush recently pruned we can’t help but wonder,
have I cut off to much? But this does not stop us; we know it must
be done, so too with the shifting of our life.
Looking
with realism, means using all that the Spirit sends: the gifts of our
sisters and the lay people who collaborate with us. Realism is not
ignoring the facts because we don’t like what they say or becoming
overwhelmed. Realism is facing the facts, naming them and then
choosing a path right through them, together. Jim Wallis, an
evangelical minster and a leading social activist in the US,
describes “hope” as “believing despite the evidence and
watching the evidence change.” So realism forms the foundation.
Or what we are dealing with is fantasy, not hope.
The
daring and pruning require real soul searching discernment, both
individually and congregationally. To prune one needs to know what
to look for, and where to cut. In North America many of us have
Mission Statements, Ours focuses on “the young, the poor and the
vulnerable,” so this needs to be our guide for pruning. With fewer
sisters, there will be no room for the new growth if pruning does not
happen. We have to clear the path. We have to choose. Not choosing
is also a choice.
The wisdom of the four pillars: preaching is but one. Contemplari
et contemplata aliis tradere. Pruning allows the dormant time of
being.
What
young people expect of religious? Authenticity. They
look to see, “Is there simplicity to their life style?” What we
need is the courage and wisdom of Dominic, who sent the entourage
home for his preaching to be more believable. Young people see
justice as key and many have spent a year or two after college
working for justice. They expect us to be working on behalf of the
poor. They care about our planet, more that anything, young people
want religious to be authentic spiritual mentors and guides. Open to
the gifts the Holy Spirit is bringing in them. They see the
incongruence in the Church and some put us in this same category.
Considering the realities of our globalized world the most
significant missioning challenges are the shifts from
institutional to marginalized, from many to fewer, from entourage to
counter cultural.
As
we hear the call to minister to the poor there is a tug in us. We
need to let institutions transition to unconsecrated lay leadership.
There are a few layers of implications here: letting go of control,
but also losing the steadiness of the income and finally our
corporate identity. Earlier I mentioned the pruning: This means
cutting off some healthy branches and stalks to give energy and
nutrients to those that fit with our specific charism. That does not
negate the value of these other ministries.
There
is the obvious challenge of numbers. This challenge shrinks if we let
go of the mindset of staffing institutions. We need to recognize
gifts we don’t have and support those who have these gifts. If we
are truly partners that means EQUAL.
As was shared at the UISG a few years ago, it
requires a shift from the sisters being the center of the circle
radiating the charism out. To a new circle where the charism is in
the middle and both sisters and lay enfleshing it and allowing it to
grow. When St. Catherine of Siena was talking to God in
her dialogues, God said to her, “I could well have supplied each of
you with all your needs, both spiritual and material. But I wanted
to make you dependent on one another so that each of you would be my
minister, dispensing the graces and the gifts you have received from
me.” ( Dialogue 7)
Naming
the huge challenge to be “counter cultural,” Jon Sobrino,
liberation theologian, asks “Will you choose to live with less,
when you could have more?” Once again not choosing is also a
choice.
All of this leads to how I envision Dominican Apostolic Life
in 2020 … I believe
Congregations in North America that are vibrant, alive and growing
will be ones that: embraced a multicultural environment; partner
with lay colleagues; and live authentically and “counter
culturally.” The global Dominican family will be technologically
interconnected, living simply, communally and collaboratively with
members from different congregations under the same roof.
“Realism, Daring, Hope.” Yesterday we
heard a great deal of realism and when we go home we need enough hope
to “believe despite the evidence and watch the evidence change.”
But this won’t just happen. First we must have the conversations.
We need to dare enough to cut and keep cutting the dead branches then
cut deeper some of the healthy branches, so that there is sufficient
energy and nourishment to focus where the Spirit is calling us TODAY
!
Sister Rosalia Meza, middle, with the Verbum Dei Missionary Fraternity, talks to two novices, Tamara Gillies, left, and Laryn Kovalik in the chapel where she is leading a retreat in Tracy, Calif., on June 10, 2015. Sister Rosalia is one of three nuns living in the convent at St. Anthony’s Catholic Church in Long Beach. 
